A themes of ‘being of service’ and ‘taking care of others’ run deeply in this blog. Meditation teacher Sharon Salzberg offers this Buddhist perspective, reminding us to begin right here, with ourselves–
The practice of metta (lovingkindness), uncovering the force of love that can uproot fear, anger, and guilt, begins with befriending ourselves. The foundation of metta practice is to know how to be our own friend. According to the Buddha, “You can search throughout the entire universe for someone who is more deserving of your love and affection than you are yourself, and that person is not to be found anywhere. You yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe, deserve your love and affection.”
How few of us embrace ourselves in this way! With metta practice we uncover the possibility of truly respecting ourselves. We discover, as Walt Whitman put it, “I am larger and better than I thought. I did not think I held so much goodness.”
source: Salzberg, S. (2002). Lovingkindness. Boston: Shambala.